About
STARTING THE HEALING PROCESS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT PART OF THE JOURNEY
Reaching out and asking for help can feel scary or overwhelming.
I approach the therapeutic process with warmth, compassion, curiosity, and deep respect for your unique journey. My hope is to create a space where you feel safe to be fully yourself—without judgment—and where you can explore whatever you’re carrying with honesty and care. I believe healing happens through genuine human connection, self-awareness, vulnerability, and a willingness to meet ourselves with greater compassion. I bring openness and curiosity to our work, along with a healthy dose of humour, because I believe laughter can be a powerful part of healing, too.
I am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC) based in Victoria, BC, offering individual and couples counselling both in person and online.
My primary therapeutic approach is Internal Family Systems (IFS), a compassionate, non-pathologizing model that recognizes that we all have different parts of ourselves that develop in response to life experiences. Rather than viewing these parts as problems to eliminate, IFS helps us understand their roles, intentions, and protective strategies.
Therapy provides an opportunity to become curious about these inner experiences, develop greater self-compassion, and create more choice in how you respond to yourself, your relationships, and the challenges in your life.
Areas of Focus
Grief & Life Transitions
Grief and life transitions can affect many parts of our lives and often bring a complex mix of emotions and experiences. Grief isn’t limited to the loss of a person; it can also arise during significant life changes, endings, shift in identity, relationship, or circumstances that ask us to let go of what once was while finding our way into what comes next. Therapy offers a compassionate way to explore these different parts of your experience while making space for grief, change, uncertainty, and healing.
Addiction, Body Image & Relationship with Self
Therapy can be particularly helpful in understanding behaviours that have become ways of coping, including addictive patterns. Rather than approaching these behaviours with shame or judgment, therapy explores the parts that rely on them for protection, relief, or regulation. This same compassionate approach can support healing around body image, self-esteem, and difficult relationships with the body.
Relationships, Couples & Emotionally Abusive Relationships
Relationship difficulties often involve protective patterns on all sides. Therapy can help individuals and couples understand what is happening beneath conflict, increase emotional safety, and develop more compassionate and connected ways of relating.
Therapy can also support those navigating antagonistic personality types and/or emotionally abusive relationships by exploring patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, fear, and difficulty maintaining boundaries, while strengthening a sense of self and connection to one’s own needs and values.
Professional Development
I hold a three-year diploma in Transpersonal Psychology from Clearmind International Institute and am a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor in British Columbia.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is my primary therapeutic modality. I have completed both the Foundational Training and Advanced Training with IFSCA and my practice is grounded in the IFS model.
My additional training and professional development includes trauma-informed and experiential approaches such as Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) and Gestalt. My ongoing professional development is supported by regular clinical supervision and continued training, with a focus on trauma, relationships, attachment, grief, and the ways our internal systems adapt to life experiences.
TESTIMONIALS
“Kara has been a deep and grounded support for me. I feel an immense sense of safety in sessions with Kara. That she not only understands me deeply but also accepts all of me- even the parts that I want to deny or disown.
Kara’s support is deep and heart centred. She will always bring a poignant question or laser clarity to shine her Ioving light in the places I cannot see, all with a touch of humour, and an immense well of love. I leave sessions with a better sense of who I am and what I want in the world and a more rooted feeling in that place of my authentic self.”
— Carly Chivers
“Kara Wouters is a wonderful human. I can say this, because I've known her and watched her grow, through many of life's hardest trials, for over nine years. Kara's genuine desire to uncover hidden truths, to live in authenticity, to be the best mother, friend,
therapist and human that she can be is the driving force of her life. And she does it all with great humour, an open heart, and deep integrity.
Good therapists need academic knowledge, great self-awareness, fantastic communication skills and top-notch emotional intelligence. A great therapist has all this and the ability to show up and be authentically present with their clients. I am fully confident that this is Kara Wouters.”
— Cherish Dorrington
“The longest journey is the journey inward”
— Dag Hammarskjold
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